wasm_export.h: Use "default" visibility for gcc and clang (#3957)
Since the top-level CMakelists.txt is appending `-fvisibility=hidden` to
the compile options, no public symbols are exported by default. This
forbids users from linking against the shared library.
Using `gcc/clang` attributes [1], it is possible to override the definition
for `WASM_RUNTIME_API_EXTERN` so that only required symbols are
correctly exported.
[1]: https://gcc.gnu.org/onlinedocs/gcc/Common-Function-Attributes.html#Common-Function-Attributes